My opinion is kind of in between Lloyd and Jeff...
I agree that the super fresh ones are the way to go.. I had a seed envelope come in dry and they didn't germinate. However, if someone has any fruits, I'd attempt the cold weather shipping with the expectation they don't survive. People here are often well priced and generous, so the small gamble isn't a pocket burner.
I'd also like to note that when people have fruits, they will post it here, and then everyone will pounce on them! Just be patient young Padawan, the ant fruit will show its self when you are ready.. hehe